I feel like there is no one I know who has a healthy relationship to money so I can look at them and say, I want to be like that. I have no role model, and no one I can talk to who is capable of being a clear mirror to help me see where I still have issues that are holding me back.
And I’m not talking about knowing the words of what I or anyone else needs to do to open the door to abundance. I know those as well as anyone else and better than some. I would love to know someone who truly leads a balanced life minute to minute and day to day and lives their healthy relationship with money. Someone I could watch and talk with, telling them my experience and asking how they would work with the challenges I face.
One hears many success stories and there is lots of information about how to make it happen. But what about when you do all that stuff for years the best you know how and your story still doesn’t include the success others manifest? Other people who share this story with me are the ones I want to have a conversation with.
It simply doesn’t work to compare oneself to some one else!! When we do that we are judging, and we won’t be able to see anything beyond the judgment. My experience is I do great for awhile, and then I compare and feel awful. One way or another I get another piece of information and how I feel shifts. I do great for awhile, and then I compare and feel awful. I get another piece of information and how I feel shifts. Repeat. Repeat.
Is anyone else experiencing this same thing? Surely I’m not alone in this! I do wish there was a way for us to be more connected. It feels dang lonely here by myself. I know there must be others out there feeling the same way I do. Where are you?
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